Question Summary:
Permissibility of a type of dua

Question Detail:

I am a practicing Muslimah and try to remain as steadfast as I can on the deen. I am also a very loyal wife. I take care of my husband and go to any length possible (even if it’s very difficult for me) to make sure that he is happy and that I always provide support and understanding for him in any and all matters.

Answer :

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

Sister in Islam.

We do not understand your difficulty and anxiety. You wish to have your husbands eye falls only on you. That will surely be achieved if Allah grants you Jannah.

 Allah says,

وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَشْتَهِي أَنْفُسُكُمْ وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَدَّعُونَ فصلت: 31

And in Jannah you will get whatever your souls desire and whatever you ask for. 

Instead of focussing on having your husbands permanent eye on you, focus on dying with Imaan and entrance into Jannah.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Huzaifah Deedat

Student Darul Iftaa
Lusaka, Zambia

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

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المعجم الأوسط- مكتبة الرشد (3/ 279)

قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، أَنِسَاءُ الدُّنْيَا أَفْضَلُ أَمُ الْحُورُ الْعِينُ؟ قَالَ: «بَلْ نِسَاءُ الدُّنْيَا أَفْضَلُ مِنَ الْحُورِ الْعَيْنِ كَفَضْلِ الظَّهَارَةِ عَلَى الْبِطَانَةِ» . قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَبِمَ ذَاكَ؟ قَالَ: «بِصَلَاتِهِنَّ وَصِيَامِهِنَّ وَعِبَادِتِهِنَّ لِلَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ، أَلْبَسَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ وُجُوهَهُنَّ النُّورَ وَأَجْسَادَهُنَّ الْحَرِيرَ، بِيضُ الْأَلْوَانِ، خُضْرُ الثِّيَابِ، صُفْرُ الْحُلِيِّ مَجَامِرُهُنَّ الدُّرُّ، وأَمْشَاطُهُنَّ الذَّهَبُ، يَقُلْنَ: أَلَا نَحْنُ الْخَالِدَاتُ فَلَا نَمُوتُ أَبَدًا، أَلَا وَنَحْنُ النَّاعِمَاتُ فَلَا نَبْؤُسُ أَبَدًا، أَلَا وَنَحْنُ الْمُقِيمَاتُ فَلَا نَظْعَنُ أَبَدًا، أَلَا وَنَحْنُ الرَّاضِيَاتُ فَلَا نَسْخَطُ أَبَدًا، طُوبَى لِمَنْ كُنَّا لَهُ وَكَانَ لَنَا»

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