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In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatoh

Kindly answer my below queries. Send a mail too.
In one web site I read in Question & Answer
Q. When does automatic divorce happend, i.e If no communication, no meet etc. between Husband & Wife, is it considered a Divorce...?. This is without the husband verbally saying "Tallaq or Divorce".
A. Yes, U know one tallaq that is called TALLAQ-E-BAIN prevails automatically when a person doesn`t meet his wife for four continuous months,, if then he meet before the period of Iddat comes to end it is called RAJOO... then the wife remains in his Nikkah & then there remains only two Tallaq for complete seperation.
him....then again pass through the time period of Iddat....all this process is called HALALA...so after HALALA now she can remarry his 1st man
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My Question
There are lots of issues with my wife & not happy with her from any angel (She also told me bad word on phone, no respect, etc………..) 1st times she left house for 6 months after compromise from our two groups(Jamat), I allowed her back to home.
She told me number of times you met me here don’t meet in heaven. After telling good things she replied every time in bad way & each day she will create some problems. Otherwise she will tell I will go. I am not happy with her behavior. I guess she is not interested in me. There is no sexual response from her. She told many times call people do Khula(Divorce). One day she told me don’t tell me anything, don’t touch me I'm not more her husband. Again she left the house & not with me from last 5 months. I told her many times go out, nothing left between us. After marriage I guess that she is forcibly married she left the house without informing me & my parents 5 times in 2 years of our married life. Starting 3 times she came back with his uncle, his uncle told me it will not happened next time forgive her.
After coming back she told me my mother send me otherwise I'm not interested to come. Her family involved in doing Black Magic they did me many times but Allah saved me from this Magic. After suffering from more than 2 years I & my family decided better to separate. My all family member & relatives in tens because of me. They want to see me happy in life. Please tell me on what stage I'm now. I heard she is having some affair with 1 guy & guess too I told her go out from home & from life too, she left the house 6 months back with my son without informing. Kindly explain what the solution is.
In this situation if husband & wife not together for 4 months I read it’s called Tallaq-E-Bain
Kindly explain me about all three Tallaq in details.
1 islamic sites in that its mentioned that if husband & wife seperated for months or years its not considered as a divorce. But in about Q&A the Mufti is mention that if there is no meet & communication for 4 months its called TALLAQ-E-BAIN prevails automatically. I read this in many sites too kindly answer me in light of Quran & Sunnah.
Now in what stage am now I told my wife after asking khula many times go away, get out, nothing remaining in life etc. & also in the intension of Divorce. she also not able to fulfill the rights of husband.