Question Summary:
How long can we use comdoms like 3-5 yrs and can we use female condoms,waht type of chemicals does it contain and can my wife use her hand to pleasure during her periods

Question Detail:

How long can we use comdoms like 3-5 yrs and can we use female condoms,waht type of chemicals does it contain  and can my wife use her hand  to pleasure during her periods

Answer :

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatoh
1)      Please  Find attached our standard answer.
2)      It is permissible.
And Allah knows best
Wassalam
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah
 
CONTRACEPTION
Reversible
Chemical - the pill which is taken orally spermicidal jellies used locally. Mechanical - use of condom intra-uterine device Physical - coitus interruptus rhythm method Permanent - sterilization operation - tubal ligations - vasectomies.
Question 1
Is the Practice of contraception allowed in Islam? If so, under what circumstances?
Answer
Contraception is permissible on a limited scale for valid reasons - reasons considered by the Shariلh to be valid. The circumstances which will permit reversible and permanent contraception differ.
REVERSIBLE CONTRACEPTION
Among the reasons accepted by the Shariلh as valid for practising reversible contraception are:
(A)  Physical weakness.
(B)   Sickness.
(C)  The wife maintaining her beauty or figure for the sake of her husband.
(D)  The couple being on a journey or in a distant land.
(E)   Adverse political conditions, e.g. children are forcibly separated from their parents as is advocated by communism; etc.
(F)   The couple decide to separate in the near future.
(G)  The wife is an immoral person.
There are valid grounds for practising reversible contraception. Poverty or the fear of poverty are not valid reasons for contraception. It is not permissible to practice contraception on account of a fear of not being able to provide for a large family. Such a fear is an attribute of non-Muslims. According to the Qurمn Shareef: 'There is not a living creature, but its sustenance is the responsibility of Allah.'
Similarly desire to curb sexual desire which may stem out of piety is not a lawful ground for contraception. If practised for any reason which is unlawful in Islam, then contraception will likewise be unlawful, e.g. for indulgence in illicit sex.
PERMANENT CONTRACEPTION
Permanent contraception is permissible only if the woman's life is in danger or her health is seriously threatened.
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai