Question Summary:
Marriage dispute/downfall after having a baby

Question Detail:

I have a peculiar situation that has dragged on much more than desired.

Answer :

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

We take note of your details referred to in the query.

Every story has two sides.

You have tried all possible means to normalize your marriage and get her back. Unfortunately, those means were unsuccessful.

Every human being by nature has an instinct to dispute. Everyone has ups & downs and short comings. No one is perfect. Try your best to overcome these difficulties and handle a matter with maturity, wisdom and patience.

Since you have a child, a home with joint parental attention is better than a broken home.

We advise you to appoint an influential person to consult the issue with your wife. The person should be able to offer her correct and wise counsel.

Be positive and focus on making the marriage work. If you are determined to sacrifice in making the marriage a success, Allah will be on your side.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Mirza Mahmood Baig

Student Darul Iftaa

Jeddah, KSA

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.