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Before few month ago my parents got my sister married with a person of my parents choice And they forced her to get married when they knew that she likes a person, they know he is a very nice person, qualified, can support my sister means he is earning well, but my parents did Question Detail:
Before few month ago my parents got my sister married with a person of my parents choice And they forced her to get married when they knew that she likes a person, they know he is a very nice person, qualified, can support my sister means he is earning well, but my parents did not think and said no just because he is from india that’s he is not same nationally, so they forced my sister and got her married but now when she is married, now its not even a year but she is not happy
So I am in a situation that I am having relation with a person who is 24 years old, Muslim, well educated and also earning well, so my elder sister and brother suggested that I do not inform my parents because they will for sure send me back to Pakistan and will stop my studies and will get me married to someone I do not even know
In my family there is elder people like my grandparents but my parents does not value about they telling or making them understand, which means they cant even help me
The person I like his family is agreed about us getting married
1- My question is what do I do now? Get married to someone else like my sister??
2- Or get married to the person I want??
Plzzzz help me in my problem
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In the name of Allāh, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalāmu ῾alaykum wa Rahmatullāhi Wabarakātuh
At the outset, we understand that you are currently engaged in a relationship with a strange man. This is Haraam and prohibited in Islam. You should desist from further engaging with any stranger as the curse of Allah will always remain upon you until your relationship with a stranger seizes. You may only interact with a stranger once you have made Nikah and you become legal husband and wife.
Nevertheless, after studying the contents of your mail, we suggest that you motivate some influential friends or associates of your parents to make them agree to allow you to marry someone of your choice. It is important that you also hear your parents view on the matter as they may have some genuine concerns regarding the boy which you do not know. It is wise to listen to them as well so that you may not have any future regrets. Your parents will never wish evil and wrong for you. You are their blood and flesh and their love for you is never ending. Consult them, take their blessings and Duas and thereafter experience the unseen help and assistance from Allah.
And Allāh Ta῾āla Knows Best
Wassalāmu ῾alaykum
Muhammed Zakariyya Desai,
Assistant Mufti
Checked and Approved by:
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Dārul Iftā, Madrasah In῾āmiyyah
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