Question Summary:
I got married 2 years ago but my wife seems to be unhappy. she says I do not satisfy her sexually. what should I do?

Question Detail:

I got married 2 years ago but my wife seems to be unhappy. she says I do not satisfy her sexually. what should I do? Also can a man and women masturbate each other for pleasure. Also is it haram for a women to reach an orgasm by her husband masturbating her?

Answer :

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
1.      At the outset, it is important that you consider the feelings of your wife in this regard. If she claims that you are not satisfying her, you should obtain professional medical advice on this issue. You are newly married and should avoid any type of resentment from your wife.
2.      It is permissible (Shaami Page 355 Vol. 2)
3.      Refer 2 above.
And Allah knows best
Wassalam
Muhammed Zakariyya Desai,
Assistant Mufti
Checked and Approved by:
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah