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My sisters are not getting married. Please advise.

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My 2 sisters are 30 and 29 years old .
My parents are searching perposals for them but people came home and not answering.Sir both are beautiful and well educated.But for years we are not finding a best proposal for them. 
I think its due to Sihr.I want to know that is there some one who want to stop their marriage if it is so then what is the solution. My parents and sisters are very punctual and regular about their prayers. They also recite Holy Quran.
please tell me ISTEKHARA method and is there any wazifa for marraige?

Answer :

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Allāh Ta’ālā has made this Dunyā a place of test for the believers. The test for each person is different. Some are tested through financial constraint while others are tested through family challenges.
Allāh Ta’ālā tests his creation with difficult conditions in order to elevate their status and worth. Difficulty is in fact a favor upon a believer from Allāh Ta’ālā. Sins are erased and lofty levels in Jannah are secured through enduring patience in the face of trying times. In all cases, one’s heart must be focused on the Power of Almighty Allāh and one must continue to seek His assistance. All situations are totally controlled by Allāh Ta’ālā.
You state that you feel someone may have afflicted your family with magic. Have conviction that Allāh Ta’ālā alone is the sole protector. Rasūlullāh Sallallāhu Alaihi Wa Sallam has taught us many Duās (supplications) in Ahādīth that attract the help and protection of Allāh. A Muslim is always equipped with the protection of Duās that are more powerful than anything one can imagine. Through the Barakah of these Duās, no force or created entity will be able to harm such a person. Hereunder are a few narrations containing Duās taught to us by Rasūlullāh Sallallāhu Alaihi Wa Sallam:

  • Rasūllullāh Sallallāhu Alaihi Wa Sallam said, “If a man recites the following Duā upon leaving his house, it is said to this person, “You have been guided, you have been sufficed for, and you have been protected.”[1]
  • بِسْمِ اللَّهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ عَلَى اللَّهِ، لَا حَوْلَ وَلَا قُوَّةَ إِلَّا بِاللَّهِ (سنن ابى داود، بَابُ مَا يَقُولُ إِذَا خَرَجَ مِنْ بَيْتِهِ)
    Transliteration: Bismillāhi Tawakkaltu A’lallāh Wa Lā Hawla Wa Lā Quwwata Illā Billāh
    Translation: I (leave my house) in the name of Allāh. I have placed my trust in Allāh. There is no power or might except with Allāh.
     

  • Rasūlullāh Sallallāhu Alaihi Wa Sallam said, “Whosoever recites the following Duā three times every morning and every evening, nothing will harm him.”[2]
  • بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الَّذِي لَا يَضُرُّ مَعَ اسْمِهِ شَيْءٌ فِي الأَرْضِ وَلَا فِي السَّمَاءِ، وَهُوَ السَّمِيعُ العَلِيمُ (سنن الترمذى، بَاب مَا جَاءَ فِي الدُّعَاءِ إِذَا أَصْبَحَ وَإِذَا أَمْسَى)
    Transliteration: Bismillāhilladhī Lā Ya Dhurru Ma’asmihi Shaiyun Fil-Ardhi Wa Lā Fis-Samāe Wa Huwas-Samīu’l-A’līm
    Translation: In the name of Allāh, the One with whose name nothing in the heavens and earth can harm. And He is All-Hearing and All-Knowing.
     

  • Rasūlullāh Sallallāhu Alaihi Wa Sallam stated, “Recite Surah Ikhlās, Surah Falaq, and Surah Nās (the last three Surahs of the Qurān) three times morning and evening. This will be sufficient for you against everything. (Sunan Abī Dāwūd)[3]
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  • Ibn Abbās Radhiyallāhu Anhu states that a man complained to Rasūlullāh Sallallāhu Alaihi Wa Sallam that he is often afflicted with calamities. Rasūlullāh Sallallāhu Alaihi Wa Sallam stated to him, “Recite the following Duā (once) in the mornings. Nothing will afflict you.” The man recited these words and there were no more calamities. [4] 
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    بِسْمِ اللَّهِ عَلَى نَفْسِي وَأَهْلِي وَمَالِي (عمل اليوم والليلة لابن السنى)
    Transliteration: Bismillāhi A’lā Nafsī Wa Ahlī Wa Mālī
    Translation: In the name of Allāh (I seek protection) for myself, my family and my wealth.
    Ensure that you, your sisters and the rest of your family members recite these supplications on a daily basis. Have trust in only Allāh Ta’ālā. It is important to note that the true desired effect of these supplications will manifest itself when one fulfills all of his obligations to Allāh such as five times daily Salāh, Fasting in Ramadhān, yearly Zakāh, and Hajj. Also, it is imperative that one must stay away from the disobedience of Allāh to the best of one’s capabilities.
    You also state that you want Wazīfas for your sisters’ marriage. Advise your sisters to concentrate upon the meaning of the following verse and recite at least once after every Salāh:
     
    رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا (سورة الفرقان، رقم الآية 74)
    Our Sustainer, Grant us the coolness of our eyes from our spouses and children, and make us leaders of the pious.” (Qurān 25:74)
     
    Also advise them to recite the following Dua abundantly on a daily basis. This Duā was recited by Hadhrat Mūsā Alaihissalām and Allāh Ta’ālā blessed him with marriage shortly thereafter. The Duā is as follows:
     
    رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ (سورة القصص، رقم الآية 24)
    O My Rabb! Indeed I am needy of whatever good you bestow on me. (Qurān 28:24) 
     
    After carrying out the above-mentioned A’māl, your sisters should have belief that Allāh will do whatever is best for them. They should be pleased with whatever Allāh Ta’ālā decides for them. In this is success in this world as well as in the Hereafter.
    We ask Allāh Ta’ālā to grant your sisters pious spouses. Amīn.
    And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
    Abdul Azīm bin Abdur Rahman,
    Student Darul Iftaa
    U.S.A.

    Checked and Approved by,
    Mufti Husain Kadodia.

     
     
     
     


    [1]   حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْخَثْعَمِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا حَجَّاجُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، عَنْ إِسْحَاقَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي طَلْحَةَ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، قَالَ: " إِذَا خَرَجَ الرَّجُلُ مِنْ بَيْتِهِ فَقَالَ بِسْمِ اللَّهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ عَلَى اللَّهِ، لَا حَوْلَ وَلَا قُوَّةَ إِلَّا بِاللَّهِ، قَالَ: يُقَالُ حِينَئِذٍ: هُدِيتَ، وَكُفِيتَ، وَوُقِيتَ، فَتَتَنَحَّى لَهُ الشَّيَاطِينُ، فَيَقُولُ لَهُ شَيْطَانٌ آخَرُ: كَيْفَ لَكَ بِرَجُلٍ قَدْ هُدِيَ وَكُفِيَ وَوُقِيَ؟ (سنن ابى داود، بَابُ مَا يَقُولُ إِذَا خَرَجَ مِنْ بَيْتِهِ)

     

    [2]   حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَهُوَ الطَّيَالِسِيُّ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبَانَ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ عُثْمَانَ بْنَ عَفَّانَ، يَقُولُ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " مَا مِنْ عَبْدٍ يَقُولُ فِي صَبَاحِ كُلِّ يَوْمٍ وَمَسَاءِ كُلِّ لَيْلَةٍ: بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الَّذِي لَا يَضُرُّ مَعَ اسْمِهِ شَيْءٌ فِي الأَرْضِ وَلَا فِي السَّمَاءِ، وَهُوَ السَّمِيعُ العَلِيمُ ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ، فَيَضُرَّهُ شَيْءٌ " وَكَانَ أَبَانُ، قَدْ أَصَابَهُ طَرَفُ فَالِجٍ، فَجَعَلَ الرَّجُلُ يَنْظُرُ إِلَيْهِ، فَقَالَ لَهُ أَبَانُ: «مَا تَنْظُرُ؟ أَمَا إِنَّ الحَدِيثَ كَمَا حَدَّثْتُكَ، وَلَكِنِّي لَمْ أَقُلْهُ يَوْمَئِذٍ لِيُمْضِيَ اللَّهُ عَلَيَّ قَدَرَهُ» : «هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ غَرِيبٌ (سنن الترمذى، بَاب مَا جَاءَ فِي الدُّعَاءِ إِذَا أَصْبَحَ وَإِذَا أَمْسَى)

     

    [3]  حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُصَفَّى، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي فُدَيْكٍ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي [ص:322] ابْنُ أَبِي ذِئْبٍ، عَنْ أَبِي أَسِيدٍ الْبَرَّادِ، عَنْ مُعَاذِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ خُبَيْبٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ: خَرَجْنَا فِي لَيْلَةِ مَطَرٍ، وَظُلْمَةٍ شَدِيدَةٍ، نَطْلُبُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لِيُصَلِّيَ لَنَا، فَأَدْرَكْنَاهُ، فَقَالَ: أَصَلَّيْتُمْ؟ فَلَمْ أَقُلْ شَيْئًا، فَقَالَ: «قُلْ» فَلَمْ أَقُلْ شَيْئًا، ثُمَّ قَالَ: «قُلْ» فَلَمْ أَقُلْ شَيْئًا، ثُمَّ قَالَ: «قُلْ» فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا أَقُولُ؟ قَالَ: «قُلْ قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ وَالْمُعَوِّذَتَيْنِ حِينَ تُمْسِي، وَحِينَ تُصْبِحُ، ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ تَكْفِيكَ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ (سنن ابى داود، بَابُ مَا يَقُولُ إِذَا أَصْبَحَ)

     

    [4]   أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ زَيْدَانَ، أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا زَيْدُ بْنُ الْحُبَابِ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ رَجُلٍ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا أَنَّ رَجُلًا، شَكَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّهُ يُصِيبُهُ الْآفَاتُ، فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " قُلْ إِذَا أَصْبَحْتَ: بِسْمِ اللَّهِ عَلَى نَفْسِي وَأَهْلِي وَمَالِي، فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَذْهَبُ لَكَ شَيْءٌ " فَقَالَهُنَّ الرَّجُلُ؛ فَذَهَبَتْ عَنْهُ الْآفَاتُ (عمل اليوم والليلة، ج 1، ص 50،  دار القبلة للثقافة الإسلامية ومؤسسة علوم القرآن - جدة / بيروت)

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