Question Summary:
Is there any Duaa for getting married to a girl that I like?

Question Detail:

 The question I want to ask is I really like this girl and I don't no if she feels same way so I need to ask is their any dua that I could pray so we could get married?

Answer :

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.


Marriage is a major step in life. It is not about one day, or one month, or one year. Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one another. If you are genuinely interested in marrying the girl, consult your parents and seek their advice. Do not feel shy to speak to your parents about your feelings. Your parents will look out for the best of your interest. At the same time, constantly make Duaa to Allah and perform Istikharah. Never proceed in any major task without first making Istikharah and seeking the help of Allah. Many times, a person may like something which may not be good for him. Only Allah knows the future of everything. Ask Allah to grant you whatever is good for you and to put Khair and Barakah. If the girl is good for you, then definitely Allah will make it easy for you to marry her. If for any reason you are unable to marry her, then consider this as a sign from Allah that the girl may not be good for you. Below is the procedure of performing Salat-ul-Istikharah:
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Istikharah means to seek khair (goodness) from Allah regarding any task in which one is unable to make a correct decision.[1] When one performs Salat-ul-Istikharah, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala places a feeling of inclination towards a particular side. In Istikharah, it is not necessary that a person will see a dream. Rather, a person should carry out whatever occurs to him. In other words, one should continue to do Mashwara and seek advises from others regarding the task. It is preferable that one performs the Istikharah himself rather than others performing it on his behalf.[2] Salat-ul-Istikharah may be performed at anytime. It is not a condition to perform Salat-ul-Istikharah before going to sleep.
 
The method of performing Salat-ul-Istikharah is as follows:
Perform wudu and offer two Rakahs with the intention of Salat-ul-Istikharah. The Salah will be performed normally like any other Salah. Recite Surah Kafiroon in the first Rakah and Surah Ikhlas in the second Rakah. Upon completing the Salah, recite the following Dua.
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ العَظِيمِ، فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلاَ أَقْدِرُ، وَتَعْلَمُ وَلاَ أَعْلَمُ، وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الغُيُوبِ، اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الأَمْرَ خَيْرٌ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي، ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ، وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الأَمْرَ شَرٌّ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ، وَاقْدُرْ لِي الخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ، ثُمَّ أَرْضِنِي[3]
(Note: Some of the narrations have mentioned the word رَضِّنِي instead of the word أَرْضِنِي. Both forms are correct.)
 
Translation: “All praises are due to Allah, the Rabb of the Worlds. Salutations and Greetings be on our leader, Muhammad, his family and all his Companions.
O Allah! I seek from You a decision by virtue of Your Knowledge (of what is best), and I seek from You the ability (to realize my object) by virtue of Your Power, and I ask You (to grant me) from Your Great Bounty, for indeed You have power and I do not have power, and You know and I do not know, and You are the Knower of the unseen. Oh Allah! If, according you Your Knowledge, this matter is good for me with regards to my religious affairs, my worldly life and my final outcome (i.e. in the Hearafter), then direct it towards me and ease it for me, thereafter grant me blessing in it. And if according to Your Knowledge, this matter is evil for me with regards to my religious affairs, my worldly life and my final outcome (i.e. Hearafter), then turn it away from me and turn me away from it. And direct towards me that which is good, no matter where it is, thereafter make me pleased with it (i.e. that good.)”
Mention your need while reciting the underline portion of the Dua. It is Mustahab to follow this procedure three times. One may use the help of a book etc. if one does not know the Dua by heart. Alternatively, if time does not allow a person to go through this entire procedure, one may recite the following Dua without having to perform any Salah. This is the shortest form of Istikharah.
اللَّهُمَّ خِرْ لِي وَاخْتَرْ لِي
“O Allah, destine good for me and choose for me” [4]
 
 
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Abdul Hannan Nizami,
Student Darul Iftaa
Chicago, USA
Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.