Question Summary:
Please can you shed some light on my dilemma. A few nights ago whilst lying in bed i awoke from my sleep and felt what i thought was my husbands feet on top of me. I tapped the feet but I think I only did that so that my husband would lift up his feet as I felt uncomfortable….

Question Detail:

Please can you shed some light on my dilemma.  A few nights ago whilst lying in bed i awoke from my sleep and felt what i thought was my husbands feet on top of me.  I  tapped the feet  but I think I only did that so that my husband would lift up his feet as I felt uncomfortable.  Unfortunately after the feet moved, I realised it was my three year old sons feet and not my husbands. I am not 100% sure if i touched him with lust or not or whether i just touched his feet so he would move them.  please answer my question , is my husband haram on me.

Answer :

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
No, your husband is not Haram on you.
وكذا تشترط الشهوة في الذكر حتى لو جامع ابن أربع سنين زوجة أبيه لا تثبت به حرمة المصاهرة ، كذا في فتح القدير .
And Allah knows best
Wassalam
Ml. Talha Desai,
Student Darul Iftaa
Checked and Approved by:
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah