Question Summary:
Hurmah Musaaharah query

Question Detail:

I saw a video about hurmate musahara on youtube by a mufti and that made me extremely fearful about such a thing that even my wife would become haram for me. I started taking extreme care with my 9 years old daughter, like avoiding to take or give anything to her in order to avoid touching her. I have no desire for her, even this whole idea is extremely disgusting for me.

Answer :

In the Name of Allaah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salaamu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullaahi wa-barakaatuh.

Brother in Islaam,

Your nikaah is intact. Ignore all such thoughts and do no entertain them. They are from Shaitaan. If any such thought cross your mind, recite the following:

أعوذُ باِللهِ مِنَ الشَّيطَانِ الرَّجِيم^[1]

Translation: I seek refuge in Allaah from the rejected devil.

لاحول ولا قوة إلا بالله

Translation: There is no power and no might except with Allaah.

You state that the whole idea is extremely disgusting for you. That is the natural disposition. Hence, you should not have any fear of being around your family. Go about as you would normally and ignore all unwanted thoughts.

And Allaah Ta’aala Knows Best.

Muajul I. Chowdhury

Student, Darul Iftaa

Astoria, New York, USA

Checked and Approved by,

Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

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^[1]  سورة فصلت (آية 36)

{وَإِمَّا يَنْزَغَنَّكَ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ نَزْغٌ فَاسْتَعِذْ بِاللَّهِ إِنَّهُ هُوَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ}

سورة المؤمنون (97، 98)

{وَقُلْ رَبِّ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ هَمَزَاتِ الشَّيَاطِينِ (97) وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ رَبِّ أَنْ يَحْضُرُونِ}