Question Summary:
Why does AskImam have a standard response when answering social issues?

Question Detail:

Many people ask questions relating to their personal life, perhaps they are living with unsupportive parents or spouses and they are looking for solutions for coommon problems.

Answer :

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

Brother in Islam

We take note of the contents of your email and appreciate your constructive criticism in good spirit. We value your observations and we are not offended in the least. Our focus is to offer practical advice to people in challenging situations. However, in order to so, the questioner needs to explain every possible angle of his challenge for us to have proper insight on his issue and advise accordingly.

You may have observed only few of our answers and arrived at your own conclusion based on your assumption. There are many instances wherein we issued detailed and practical advises to overcome challenges. At times, a questioner does not explain his situation in detail and we are unaware of the questioners’ background as well as the detailed context of the situation, we are not in a position to offer comprehensive advice. Experience has proven that majority of the time there is an untold dimension surrounding the questioners’ circumstances, which would demand advice contrary to what would have been offered.

In this era of modern technology, it is irrelevant whether one lives in a “close knit community” or not. The questioner can contact any of his bosom friends or access a scholar from another continent on the click of a button.

When a person comes to us with a problem, we advise him to seek the counsel of such personnel who are better acquainted with the questioner’s background and current situation. That person would be in a perfect position to view all angles and factors thereby gaining insight into the situation. This results in a suitable decision being reached. That is part of the underlying wisdom behind advising our questioners to someone’s counsel. You would be surprised at the number of cases where the questioner hasn’t even considered Mashwarah.

Consider the verse of Quran where Allah Ta’ala says:

وَشَاوِرْهُمْ فِي الْأَمْرِ فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ

“And consult them in the matter, and once you have taken a decision place your trust in Allah”

[Verse 3:159]

In another verse, Allah Ta’ala mentions regarding those who have faith:

وَ الَّذِينَ اسْتَجابُوا لِرَبِّهِمْ وَ أَقامُوا الصَّلاةَ وَ أَمْرُهُمْ شُورى بَيْنَهُمْ وَ مِمَّا رَزَقْناهُمْ يُنْفِقُونَ 

“And those who respond to their Lord, keep up prayer, who consult among themselves, and who give out (to the poor) part of what we have given them” [Verse 42:38]

The reason we advise people to resort to dua and zikr is following the guidelines of Allah. Almighty Allah is well aware of people’s challenges. He even knows that people are making dua, zikr and beseeching his help. Yet Allah encourages them to make dua and zikr. Furthermore, when people face challenging situations, their minds are consumed with worry and anxiety. They adopt worldly means to address their issues and do not resort to dua and zikr. The advice to do so is to remind them and invoke Allah’s mercy. Allah says:

وَذَكِّرْ فَإِنَّ الذِّكْرَى تَنفَعُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ

"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers." [51:55]

We reiterate our appreciation to you. You are in our duas.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Aboobakr Siddeeq bin Mufti Amjad Mohammad

Student Darul Iftaa

Azaadville, JHB, South Africa

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.