Question Summary:
Does this statement affect my marriage?

Question Detail:

Once in one of the marriage my wife was not in hijab. I was advising her in the marriage day to be in hijab or atleast try to stay away from people where there are more gents in a polite way. Also i said that i am follwing sunnah in my appearance n attire , i feel shame that my wife is without hijab. For that she replied, then plz don sit with me so that they(others) may think that i am not your wife. This made me angry and said her as you said 'jaisa app bole aaj tume mere bhievi ny' and I gone from that place. She too cried n went from that place. then on the same day i asked her sorry for saying like that. will this affect our marriage.

Answer :

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
The statement ‘ jaisa app bole aaj tu mere bhievi ny’ is in response to the wife’s statement in which she said ‘ don sit with me so that they (others) may think I  am not your wife’. Accordingly, he said jaisa app bole which means; as you said… The similarity is in merely being separate so that people may think that they are not husband and wife. The purpose was not to issue talaq.
However, if the husband intended talaq, then one talaq raj’i(revocable) divorce will take place.[1]
 
 
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Ibn Jibran Kadarkhan
Student Darul Iftaa
Mauritius  
Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.