Marriage is in critical situation now, just because of misunderstandings of Islamic low.
My Marriage is in very critical situation now. I don't want to leave my wife. Please give me some reference of Quran and Hadith for my below queries to tell her about her misunderstanding.
1. Can a husband force her wife to ware burqa and niqab to cover her satar as per Islamic low?
2. My wife is saying that only "Chadar, shawl, audhni/duppta" words are mention in Quran and hadith, so she will not ware burqa and niqab, is this valid? I said her, There are many things/words are not mention in Quran and hadith like (Mobile Phone, Train, T.V, Computer etc.) we should stop using these things?
[2] يَـٰٓأَيُّہَا ٱلنَّبِىُّ قُل لِّأَزۡوَٲجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَآءِ ٱلۡمُؤۡمِنِينَ يُدۡنِينَ عَلَيۡہِنَّ مِن جَلَـٰبِيبِهِنَّۚ ذَٲلِكَ أَدۡنَىٰٓ أَن يُعۡرَفۡنَ فَلَا يُؤۡذَيۡنَۗ
Translation:
“Oh Prophet! Tell your wives, your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks [veils] all over their bodies [i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way]. That will be better, that they should be known [as free respectable women] so as not to be annoyed.” [Surah Ahzab/Verse 59]
(Al-Ahzab 33:59), that the Jilbaab is: "a cloth which covers the entire body... Ibn 'Abbaas (Radhiallaahu Ánhu) and 'Ubaidah As-Salmaani (Radhiallaahu Ánhu) said that it is to be fully wrapped around the women's body, so that nothing appears but one eye with which she can see." [Tafseer Al-Qurtubi Surah Al-Ahzab ayah # 59].
The Noble Qur’an declares:
يَـٰٓأَيُّہَا ٱلنَّبِىُّ قُل لِّأَزۡوَٲجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَآءِ ٱلۡمُؤۡمِنِينَ يُدۡنِينَ عَلَيۡہِنَّ مِن جَلَـٰبِيبِهِنَّۚ ذَٲلِكَ أَدۡنَىٰٓ أَن يُعۡرَفۡنَ فَلَا يُؤۡذَيۡنَۗ
Translation:
“Oh Prophet! Tell your wives, your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks [veils] all over their bodies [i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way]. That will be better, that they should be known [as free respectable women] so as not to be annoyed.” [Surah Ahzab/Verse 59]
وَقُل لِّلۡمُؤۡمِنَـٰتِ يَغۡضُضۡنَ مِنۡ أَبۡصَـٰرِهِنَّ وَيَحۡفَظۡنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبۡدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنۡهَاۖ وَلۡيَضۡرِبۡنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِہِنَّۖ وَلَا يُبۡدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوۡ ءَابَآٮِٕهِنَّ أَوۡ ءَابَآءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوۡ أَبۡنَآٮِٕهِنَّ أَوۡ أَبۡنَآءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوۡ إِخۡوَٲنِهِنَّ أَوۡ بَنِىٓ إِخۡوَٲنِهِنَّ أَوۡ بَنِىٓ أَخَوَٲتِهِنَّ أَوۡ نِسَآٮِٕهِنَّ أَوۡ مَا مَلَكَتۡ أَيۡمَـٰنُهُنَّ أَوِ ٱلتَّـٰبِعِينَ غَيۡرِ أُوْلِى ٱلۡإِرۡبَةِ مِنَ ٱلرِّجَالِ أَوِ ٱلطِّفۡلِ ٱلَّذِينَ لَمۡ يَظۡهَرُواْ عَلَىٰ عَوۡرَٲتِ ٱلنِّسَآءِۖ وَلَا يَضۡرِبۡنَ بِأَرۡجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعۡلَمَ مَا يُخۡفِينَ مِن زِينَتِهِنَّۚ
Translation:
And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornment save to their own husbands or fathers or husbands' fathers, or their sons or their husbands' sons, or their brothers or their brothers' sons or sisters' sons, or their women, or their slaves, or male attendants who lack vigour, or children who know naught of women's nakedness. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. [Surah Nūr/ Verse 31]
Allah Ta’ala says clearly that a woman’s body should be covered by loose-fitting, non-transparent clothing so that the shape of her body is not revealed. The Hijaab hides the beauty of the woman’s form. No one can dispute that a woman’s primary focus of beauty is her face. Therefore, if Allah Ta’ala places so much of emphasis on hiding the beauty of a woman’s body. It is only logical that the centre of greater attraction – the face – should without a doubt also be covered. Referring to the wives [Radhiallaahu Anhunna] of Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) warns the men:
وَإِذَا سَأَلۡتُمُوهُنَّ مَتَـٰعً۬ا فَسۡـَٔلُوهُنَّ مِن وَرَآءِ حِجَابٍ۬ۚ ذَٲلِڪُمۡ أَطۡهَرُ لِقُلُوبِكُمۡ وَقُلُوبِهِنَّۚ
“And when you ask (His ladies) for anything you want, ask them from behind a curtain: that makes for greater purity for your hearts and theirs.” [Ahzaab/ Verse 53]
If Allah Ta’ala expects the prophet’s wives to be so guarded then surely none of the believing women can claim greater purity of heart and consequently exemption from the directive to hide their beauty.
Refer to the following hadith:
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ كَانَ الرُّكْبَانُ يَمُرُّونَ بِنَا وَنَحْنُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم مُحْرِمَاتٌ فَإِذَا حَاذَوْا بِنَا سَدَلَتْ إِحْدَانَا جِلْبَابَهَا مِنْ رَأْسِهَا إِلَى وَجْهِهَا فَإِذَا جَاوَزُونَا كَشَفْنَاهُ
Translation:
Hadhrat Aaisha [Radhiyallaahu Anha] says, ‘[during Hajj in the state of Ihraam] when the male should walk in front of us while in the company of Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam), then we would drop our veils from the head over the face.’
This Hadith emphatically shows the manner adopted by the honoured wives of Rasulullah [Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam]. They have exemplified an extremely dignified way of life for the women of the Ummah.
باب فِي الْمُحْرِمَةِ تُغَطِّي وَجْهَهَا
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
Riders would pass us when we accompanied the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) while we were in the sacred state (wearing ihram). When they came by us, one of us would let down her outer garment from her head over her face, and when they had passed on, we would uncover our faces. [Sunan Abu-Dawood]
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ حَنْبَلٍ، حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ، أَخْبَرَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي زِيَادٍ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ كَانَ الرُّكْبَانُ يَمُرُّونَ بِنَا وَنَحْنُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم مُحْرِمَاتٌ فَإِذَا حَاذَوْا بِنَا سَدَلَتْ إِحْدَانَا جِلْبَابَهَا مِنْ رَأْسِهَا إِلَى وَجْهِهَا فَإِذَا جَاوَزُونَا كَشَفْنَاهُ .
المسند الموضوعي الجامع للكتب العشرة (14/ 84)
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ حَنْبَلٍ، حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ، أَخْبَرَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي زِيَادٍ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: "كَانَ الرُّكْبَانُ يَمُرُّونَ بِنَا وَنَحْنُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مُحْرِمَاتٌ، فَإِذَا حَاذَوْا بِنَا سَدَلَتْ إِحْدَانَا جِلْبَابَهَا مِنْ رَأْسِهَا عَلَى وَجْهِهَا فَإِذَا جَاوَزُونَا كَشَفْنَاهُ" , (د) 1833 [قال الألباني]: ضعيف
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- وَقَدْ رَوَى يَزِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي زِيَادٍ وَفِي الْقَلْبِ مِنْهُ عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ: كُنَّا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، وَنَحْنُ مُحْرِمُونَ فَإِذَا مَرَّ بِنَا الرَّكْبُ سَدَلْنَا الثَّوْبَ عَلَى وَجْهِنَا، حَدَّثَنَاهُ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الْأَشَجُّ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ إِدْرِيسَ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ يَزِيدَ بْنَ أَبِي زِيَادٍ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا يُوسُفُ بْنُ مُوسَى حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ ح حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ هِشَامٍ حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ جَمِيعًا عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي زِيَادٍ قَالَ فِي حَدِيثِ جَرِيرٍ، فَإِذَا جَاوَزْنَا. . . . .، وَفِي حَدِيثِ هُشَيْمٍ، فَإِذَا جَاوَزْنَا كَشَفْنَاهُ, (خز) 2691 قال الأعظمي: إسناده ضعيف
المسند الموضوعي الجامع للكتب العشرة (14/ 85)
وَحَدَّثَنِي عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ الْمُنْذِرِ أَنَّهَا قَالَتْ: كُنَّا نُخَمِّرُ وُجُوهَنَا وَنَحْنُ مُحْرِمَاتٌ، وَنَحْنُ مَعَ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ الصِّدِّيقِ. , (ط) 919
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ بْنِ كُرَيْبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا زَكَرِيَّا بْنُ عَدِيٍّ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ حُمَيْدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ الْمُنْذِرِ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ قَالَتُ: كُنَّا نُغَطِّي وُجُوهَنَا مِنَ الرِّجَالِ، وَكُنَّا نَمْتَشِطُ قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ, (خز) 2690 قال الأعظمي: إسناده
صحيح
الكتاب: المسند الموضوعي الجامع للكتب العشرة
المؤلف: صهيب عبد الجبار
سنن أبي داود (2/ 167)
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ حَنْبَلٍ، حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ، أَخْبَرَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي زِيَادٍ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: «كَانَ الرُّكْبَانُ يَمُرُّونَ بِنَا وَنَحْنُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مُحْرِمَاتٌ، فَإِذَا حَاذَوْا بِنَا سَدَلَتْ إِحْدَانَا جِلْبَابَهَا مِنْ رَأْسِهَا عَلَى وَجْهِهَا فَإِذَا جَاوَزُونَا كَشَفْنَاهُ»
الناشر: المكتبة العصرية، صيدا – بيروت
صحيح ابن خزيمة (4/ 203)
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ بْنِ كُرَيْبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا زَكَرِيَّا بْنُ عَدِيٍّ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ حُمَيْدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ الْمُنْذِرِ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ قَالَتُ: كُنَّا نُغَطِّي وُجُوهَنَا مِنَ الرِّجَالِ، وَكُنَّا نَمْتَشِطُ قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ
[التعليق] 2690 - قال الأعظمي: إسناده صحيح
الناشر: المكتب الإسلامي - بيروت